IF THEY CAN GET ALONG . . . .

How do you promote good relationships even when you yourself don't fit in?  Maybe we could share some ideas about this.  Here is an example of what I do.  It might not be the best, but it is a start.

I get along well with cats (well, with most cats); goats, however, are usually not happy to have me around.  Because it is good to promote good dialogue, I walked away from this conversation so that Hank and Sunny could converse without any problem with my presence.  If Sunny (the cat) can get along with both Hank and myself, he can help to bridge the gap between me and Hank.